"You want us to watch the children WHERE???" (Part II)

[Editorial note from Mary: When you last joined us for Malaysian Adventure Blog Part I, Dan and Kathy just returned from Cambodia to Malaysia on Wednesday afternoon and soon began preparing for Friday's trip to Phuket, Thailand...]

Dan, Guest Blogger: By preparing I really mean - "Another day, another mall." This particular one, Mid Valley Mega Mall, was the largest mall we visited during our stay and quite possibly the largest I've ever been to - period! As an aside I have to say that the Malaysian mall has taken the concept of the "food court" to a new level. They are everywhere! Every mall has food courts - on various levels, inside and out. They seem to sprout like weeds from the bowels of the lowest parking levels up to the highest floors of the mall. If a food court isn't your pleasure, you can choose from the myriad of restaurants interspersed among the stores and shops. To shop or to eat? That is the question.

The triple jump - Violet landed off the end

of the mat and had to re-jump to get a measurement.

Friday morning was a fun day for Violet and her Year 3 Garden International School classmates as her grade was having their annual Field Day. The children competed against boys/girls standard times/distances in six events. Violet's results: 60 meter dash (silver medal, missed the gold by one hundredth of a second), long jump (gold medal), 200 meter run (silver medal, pretty sure no golds awarded to girls), triple jump (gold medal), baseball throw - my favorite (gold medal), basketball throw (surprised with a gold medal). Violet was a super-star to say the least! On Friday afternoon, Mary picked up Violet and Tyler from school, hurried home and we all hopped into a taxi (spelled teksi) and headed for the airport. Since Brian works closer to the airport, he met us there. We boarded  a brand new Malaysian Airlines 737 for the short flight (65 minutes) to Phuket. Before we landed, I was treated to a chicken/rice dinner, two -- yes two -- glasses of white wine, and a diet Pepsi - all complimentary in ECONOMY class and all while watching our personal AV systems! Are you listening Delta, American, United????

Brian and I used an airport ATM machine to get some Thai currency (Baht) before we all took a short taxi ride to our hotel. Kathy and I had reserved a two bedroom villa at the Marriott Beach Club for the whole family. It was magnificent! The concierge gave us a tour of the room. It had a full kitchen, two large bedrooms and a living room area. When she opened the sliding doors of the master bedroom and revealed a private pool, Violet and Tyler gaped, immediately stripped and jumped in. (In this picture, Tyler still has on his school uniform, but just a few minutes later he found a new love -- skinny dipping!) Brian and I went to a section of the property called Turtle Village to buy some "essentials" to stock the refrigerator. We then all had a late dinner at an English pub on site. Unfortunately it was a Buddhist holiday and no alcoholic beverages were served (so we had to break into our stock of "essentials" upon arriving back at the room). The next morning we took advantage of the free breakfast included in the price of the room. The restaurant offered a buffet containing one of the largest assortments of breakfast items I've ever seen. [Editorial note from Mary: Including my favorite, a noodle soup bar. Yummm.]  

After breakfast, we walked a short distance to the beach and swam in the beautiful turquoises waters of the Andaman Sea. While waiting for our late lunch, Tyler and Violet went to the slide pool. A short while later, they returned holding hands. But something was wrong! Violet was crying and holding her chin. She had slipped on the slide, fallen, and split open her chin. Brian and the medical staff at the hotel agreed that she needed stitches. After a brief visit to Bangkok-Phuket Hospital, Violet returned, patched up and in great spirits. On Sunday, in an effort to keep Violet's stitches dry, Brian and Violet borrowed bikes from the resort and had a blast checking out the local area via bike. [Editorial note from Mary: Violet has never been able to bike ride. So this was a really big deal -- and has the makings of a pretty cool story. "Yeah, I learned to ride a bike in Phuket, an island in tropical Thailand."] We found plenty to keep us busy all Sunday. Monday, we had a 6:00 PM flight back to Malaysia, so we had breakfast, packed and headed for the pool. Brian and Mary convinced me and Kathy to join them on a bike ride to get lunch by the beach. We found a great little outdoor seafood restaurant where we selected our lunch from a live tank out front on the street. All of our choices were grilled to perfection. Even Kathy's chicken and fried rice was quite good. 

Ty loved the jump seat on the back on Mary's bike!

 

Our mini vacation in Phuket, Thailand was extremely relaxing. The weather was great and the Marriott was so accommodating. Kathy and I agreed that the beach here is now our third favorite after Aruba and St. Maarten. [Editorial note from Mary: Now this has totally become an international beach throw down challenge. I really wish we could have taken them to Pulau Redang but the whole monsoon season thing got in the way.] Once again, Malaysian Airlines - short flight - dinner, two glasses of wine - complimentary - amazing!! 

[Editorial note from Mary: Dan and I went out to get durain for Dan to try. After carrying
home two D24s, Brian's favorite type of durian, on his lap, Dan was so repulsed by
the smell he couldn't bring himself to try them. Zack, Brian, and I happily polished off his helping!]

Back in Malaysia - one week remaining!  Kathy promised Brian that she would prepare his favorite Italian foods before we went back home. We had already purchased frozen meat for meatballs (from our trip to Lucky Frozen Meats), stored the cans of tomatoes for the sauce (gravy for true Italians) and located and purchased the required cheeses for the lasagna beforehand. We made the sauce, meatballs and lasagna on Tuesday. On Wednesday we went to a traditional wet market and purchased the chicken breasts for the chicken cutlet parmigiana. The butcher hacked and pounded the chicken just the way we wanted. Brian and Mary's friends came through in a big way by allowing us to use their ovens and pots to put everything together. Mary reserved the common area of her complex along with tables and chairs to accommodate everyone. Friends brought delightful salads, bread, wine, tasty cocktails, and assorted goodies to round out the feast. I must say that Kathy's cooking and menu choices would translate well into any culture (my mom taught her well)! [Editorial note from Mary: The entire evening was sensational! I feel a bit bad that Dan and Kathy cooked for their own going away party. But not that bad because the food was sooooo amazing. THANK YOU!) 

Book week: Violet, not really sad, just in character
as Ping from The Empty Pot. Tyler, as the Man with
the Yellow Hat, won his class award for best costume!  

Our remaining few days were spent shopping for souvenirs, swimming, getting the kids ready for 'dress like your favorite book character day' and, of course, going to various eating venues. [Editorial note by Mary: Yep. Dan has figured out that Malaysia is really all about AMAZING FOOD!] The "Hawker Stalls" became my favorite, offering food choices from every culture represented in Malaysia, prepared in front of you and at very reasonable prices. 

Final KL dinner (for this visit). Tyler is DJing
and singing Dust in the Wind to us.

Kathy and I were, after a month's visit, ready to return to New York but not ready to once again miss Brian, Mary, Violet and Tyler. Skyping and messaging are great but not as good as "up close and personal". Hugs and kisses don't feel as well on a screen thousands of miles away but I guess they'll do until our next visit. And I'm sure there will be a next visit! Before we leave, Kathy and I want to thank Brian and Mary's friends and colleagues for welcoming us into their homes and sharing unforgettable memories with us. Our trip has shown us that this is indeed a small world, and who knows, we may cross paths with some of these wonderful people again. Finally a farewell to our family in Malaysia - Brian, Mary, Violet and Tyler. We love you guys and will miss you dearly. These past four weeks have been unbelievably fantastic. 

We leave you now with this promise - WE'LL BE BACK!!!!

"You want us to watch the children WHERE???"

[Editorial note from Mary: A huge THANK YOU to our guest blogger, Daniel "Grandpa" R. Garibaldi. We are thrilled to have you here with us in Malaysia.]

When Brian, Mary, Violet and Tyler left for Malaysia in mid July, Kathy and I had mixed feelings. We were excited for them because they were embarking on a life's journey that few other families would ever get to experience. But, of course, we were sad because we would now be separated from an important part of our lives by a few continents and thousands of miles. Brian suggested, half in jest I thought, that we could come and visit them in Malaysia whenever we chose. At the time, Kathy and I had been to many places in the states, including Hawaii and several islands in the Caribbean. We had never once considered traveling to Southeast Asia. Knowing that part of our family would be gone for two years and missing them so much already, we went on-line and made plane reservations for the end of January. Since we wanted to visit other places in that part of the world, we also booked a family vacation for all of us in Phuket, Thailand. Brian and Mary, meanwhile, as a Christmas present, booked us a side trip to Siem Reap, Cambodia, the sight of many historic temple ruins. More on that later. Two days before leaving New York for Malaysia there was a major snow storm. The following day, all major airports cancelled hundreds of flights. The dreaded "uh oh" feeling set in fast. But things got better very quickly and we took off for Malaysia without delay. I won't attempt to bore you with details of the flight. Suffice to say, it was LONG but we got to Hong Kong first, then Kuala Lumpur on time and in great spirits arriving to 80+ degree weather.

Dan and Kathy riding a tuk tuk. [Editorial note from Mary: !!!!]

Passing through immigration and customs in Malaysia was quick and painless. Brian, wearing a bright red shirt (as promised) and holding a "Garibaldi" placard, met us at the airport. In about 45 minutes we were at Brian and Mary's apartment. The first person we saw when exiting the elevator was our beautiful Violet. She ran to us, arms outstretched and jumped into Grandma's arms. I didn't feel neglected for long as she soon was jumping into my arms as well. Next we hugged and kissed Mary and walked to the apartment. There on the door was the cutest Violet/Tyler-made sign that read "Welcome to Malaysia, Grandma and Grandpa." After drying my eyes a bit, I asked for Tyler. It turns out he waited up as long as he could before passing out. Violet woke him up and he ran into his grandma's arms. When I gave him that "what about me?" look, he remembered our private little joke and said, "You're chopped meat!" After a good night's sleep, Grandma and Grandpa were ready to soak up the culture. [Editorial note from Mary: No jet lag at all.]

Kathy enriches Garden International School's 1S class as part of
their current integrated curriculum topic --Toys and Game

Malaysia, meaning Kuala Lumpur, was nothing like Kathy and I had imagined. Growing into adulthood in the sixties, Southeast Asia, to me, was synonymous with the war in Vietnam. But this city is huge, beautiful and so international - just like New York, including the traffic. So many cars!! And the malls - mall after mall, each one bigger than the next. What about the food, you ask? You can eat something different every day, from every culture imaginable, again just like New York! Thankfully, for Kathy, it seems that every restaurant in Kuala Lumpur serves chicken and rice!

The first few days were spent exploring the city, mostly malls and food courts. [Editorial note from Mary: We wanted to ease them in...] Tyler's teacher had invited the children's families to discuss games from the past. Great timing with out visit. Kathy went to Garden International School and taught "The Farmer in the Dell" to Tyler's class. You know what they say, "Once a teacher......" One night we had dinner at an outdoor restaurant named "Lillian's." The food choices were eclectic to say the least. My personal favorites were the sting ray and the "chicken" fish. 

Welcoming in the Chinese Year of the Horse with the God of Good Fortune

The new 7 seater car with Henry

After a few quick days of acclimation to KL, Brian and Mary then went on an adult only diving expedition to the Philippines for a few days. Kathy and I more than welcomed the chance to spend quality time with Violet and Tyler. Since the children had an extended vacation in honor of Chinese New Year, Mary planned an extensive itinerary for the four of us. Since I knew nothing about getting around by car in Kuala Lumpur and wasn't used to driving on the left side of the road, Brian and Mary arranged a driver for their car to take the four of us around the city and surrounding areas. Henry, our driver, was wonderful. He regaled us with local history and culture while carefully transporting us to our various destinations. Violet, Tyler, Kathy and I visited the Bird Park, the Elephant Sanctuary, the Petronas Twin Towers, the Discovery Center, the Aquarium and the Science Center. Our last stop was Kidzania, a virtual city, where children role play every aspect of city life - firefighters, policeman, bankers, postal workers, doctors, pilots, etc., etc., etc. What a brilliant concept! I'm surprised this idea has yet to reach the U.S.






 

Violet played newscaster and
Tyler worked the camera!

  


A few days after Brian and Mary returned from the Philippines, Kathy and I were off to Siem Reap, Cambodia. After a quick two hour flight, we were met at the airport by a car from our hotel. We checked in at 9:00 AM and our private bungalow was ready by 9:30. We had pre-booked a tour guide to show us around the city and surrounding areas, the main focus, of course, being the temple ruins. ChanSarak, our guide, met us at the hotel at 11:00 AM. He had prepared an itinerary for us to encompass our three-day stay in the area. We first took a boat ride on a large lake and viewed floating villages inhabited mostly by Vietnamese immigrants. What a difficult way of living! We even saw children in a floating schoolhouse that was in session. Remarkable! We ended the first day of touring visiting various locations in the city. The city was easy to navigate since Cambodia accepts U.S. currency everywhere. FYI - if you are planning a Siem Reap trip, skip the crocodile farm! It's hot, vile-smelling and very crocodile "UNfriendly." 

 

Our visits to the various temple ruins were breathtaking beyond description. Our particular favorites were the massive structure of Angkor Wat at sunrise, Angkor Thom and, Kathy's favorite, Banteay Srey, the "citadel of the women." Reading about them does not do justice to actually seeing them up close. The workmanship and labor involved in their construction is mind boggling to say the least. Each temple had its own history and uniqueness and our guide, Sarak, explained everything in minute detail. 

We decided to spend our final day in Siem Riep exploring the city on our own. After a sumptuous breakfast (included in the price of our bungalow), the hotel arranged for a "tuk tuk" (free of charge) to take us into town and remain with us for the duration. What is a tuk tuk, you ask? It is simply a type of rickshaw attached to a motor bike, the latter being the preferred mode of transportation in Cambodia. See our tuk tuk riding picture above. We returned to the hotel in the afternoon, relaxing by the pool with a few cocktails. Later that evening, we had reservations to a restaurant and show consisting of traditional Cambodian dances. The people we met during our visit here were very accommodating and extremely friendly. The hotel staff, in particular, went out of their way to ensure a pleasant stay for Kathy and me. I, myself, loved the swim up bar. [Editorial note from Mary: NY style tipping goes a long way in Southeast Asia.] My new favorite beverage is called a "Sojourn Sunset" named after the hotel - rum, tequila, triple sec, mango, et al!

We returned to Malaysia on Wednesday afternoon and soon began preparing for Friday's trip to Phuket, Thailand. [Editorial note from Mary: Stay turned for Grandpa Garibaldi's Malaysian Adventure Blog Part II.]